Is This Fair or No?

Sunday, May 31, 2009 Edit This

Workers all around the world, including white-collar employees, are experiencing the pains of the global economic slowdown. Many companies have announced zero or meagre bonus pays and salary increments for their staff. Income projections have been slashed to reflect the protracted recession. Actual business revenue has been drastically reduced.

Unfortunately, workers are expected to put in more to bring back the same level of production. Apart from that, the most painful thing is laying off the staff, I, myself, being a victim of a recent lay-off.

It wasn't losing my job that left a bitter taste in my mouth. But, by the way the layoff was handled.

There's no doubt that the layoff experience is an awkward, and often painful, experience.

(I am in the IT field) The situation obviously is much more difficult, and more stressful, when an IT leader's leadership and management skills aren't finely honed when it comes to conducting layoffs. Apart from that, partiality and racism.

I felt I wasn't good at my job, was useless and worthless. But then, a kind colleague consoled me and told that he, himself, was terminated 8 times!!! He was laughing his lungs out while he told me this. For a moment, I forgot my pains. And, that's when he told that "Something much better is in store for you!" Those words really lifted up my spirits and I began to think positive about my termination.

Well, I didn't intend to write about my layoff details. I, actually, thought of writing this post, when one of my close friend informed me about the increment he got very recently apart from being promoted to a high position. Congrats on your promotion buddy! :)

He got an increase of K.D. 25/- plus a gift – a Nokia N96!!! While he and some of his colleagues (who works day and night) got a meagre increment, some other rascals (who kiss their boss' ass and doesn't do much for the company) got away with an increment of K.D. 100/-.

Do you think this is fair?

Green Bar

Sunday, May 31, 2009 Edit This
Ever dreamt of a skin care that moisturise and care for your body and face naturally?
Then look no further. Green Bar is here!

Creator Reem Al-Khalifa brings to you a range of treatment oils that are totally free of preservatives and additives. These beautifying, detoxifying and all-round life-enhancing oils simply rely on plants’ natural goodness to get you glowing. Apart from that, each special blend contains aromatic ingredients to uplift the spirits and make you feel beautiful inside too.

Made and bottled in the Middle East, the products range from hair revitalising oil, Taifi Rose body perfume, body oil - Sweet Almond & Amber, and Apricot & Grapefruit, Damascus Rose toner and Rice Bran face elixir. Price range: $22 to $70.

Green Bar exclusively at DIA DIWAN!

Feeling Low

Sunday, May 31, 2009 Edit This

I'm feeling low right now. I feel my life so far has been a waste of time and that I have not achieved anything in 25 years. I feel lousy, empty, useless and worthless. I can't help thinking.
Is it because my brother left yesterday after his vacations?
Is it due to the migraine?
Is it due to the hard time I am going through for the past couple of years?

Uggghhh, I JUST DON'T KNOW!!!

Has anyone of you felt the same any time in your life?

Vandy's First Baby!

Thursday, May 28, 2009 Edit This
My best friend Vandy recently gave birth to a beautiful bouncing baby boy.

Congratulations dear! :*


Awwww isn't he cute and adorable?
Mu'aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...

These Boots are Made for Walking

Wednesday, May 27, 2009 Edit This

Let's get ready to play the fun-filled "I have been tagged" games.

Note: Just incase you're wondering about the topic I gave for this post, scroll over to question number 19 and you'll know why. ;p

The Rules:


1. Put your iTunes/ music player on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER WHAT!!! After you've answered all of the questions, tag 10 people and then let them know they've been tagged to do themselves.


1.IF SOMEONE SAYS "IS THIS OKAY" YOU SAY?

I'm in Love with a Stripper - T Pain lolllllllllllllllllllllll

2.WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY?

Baby Boy Da Prince - The Way I Live (Lil Boosie) Hell nooo! I'm A BABY GIRL!!!

3.WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL ?

Where Do You Go - No Mercy Hehehe ;p

4. HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
Nobody's fool - Let Go - Avril Lavigne So true!!!!!!!

5.WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE?
Feel Good Inc - Gorilla Exactly!!

6.WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
Break It Off - Sean Paul ft. Rihanna Huhhh??

7. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR PARENTS?
Unfaithful - Rihanna No way!!! I will hang you to death Mr. i-Pod!!!

8.WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
Because of You - Neyo Lolllllll :)

9.WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
Smashing the Gas (Get Faster) - Mystikal (Need for Speed Underground) Hahahahaha, this is getting interesting...

10.WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
The Only - NFS Underground Yeah, the only special one. Mu'aaaahhhh :*

11.WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
Points of Authority - Linking Park - Hybrid Theory Ehh??

12.WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
That Girl (Ft Mannie Fresh & S) - Frankie J Me no lesbian! Me straight!!!

13.WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Scatman John - Scatman Hahahaha yeah right!

14. WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
With You - Linkin Park - Hybrid Theory How cute!!! With my hubby!!! :)

15.WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
Since You Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson - Breakway An apt music!

16.WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
Hips Don't Lie - Shakira .....lollllllll I'm rolling on the floor laughing hahahahaaa

17. WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
If I Were You - Hoobastank .... No thanks. I'm happy being myself!

18.WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
Time Goes By So Slowly - Hung Up Radio Version - Madonna Hmmmm

19. WHAT SHOULD YOU POST THIS AS?
These Boots Are Made for Walking - Jessica Simpson - Dukes of Hazzard What a topic!

20. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF?
Heaven - DJ Sammy ;p I love my i-Pod!

*** Update - Special tag: Ananyah

I tag: Chikapappi, Danderma, Ansam, Jacqui, BigPearls, FourMe, Eshda3wa, PravsJ, Fastidious Babe, Lavina




I, Me, Myself

Wednesday, May 27, 2009 Edit This

Sun-kissed beaches, shade of palm trees, the roar of waves, the mesmerizing coral reefs, the cool breeze mmmmmmmm….


I yearn to spend my time there…


… no one to disturb …


… just pampering myself…


…with my sunglasses on …


… drinking chilled lemonade …


… reading some fiction novels …


… lazily lying on the hammock and relaxing …


… no I-pods, no lappies, no net, no fone, and no tv!

I just wanna spend sometime with ME , enjoy every moment as time melts away, relax and recharge!

***The very thought of it is giving me goosebumps***

And right now, I cant even think about it; situations and circumstances aren’t in my favour… :( Sob! Sob! Sob!


Inner v/s Outer Beauty

Wednesday, May 27, 2009 Edit This

How many of us judge people by their face?

***I can see almost all hands raised up and swinging in the air***

Making a snap judgment based on appearance often works; but not always. And the exceptions can really cost you.

The world teaches us to judge people by their outward appearance. But God doesn't judge people by how they look instead HE looks at a person’s thoughts, intentions and deeds ; and so should WE!

Inner beauty is a gift to one’s self. We may not be able to ‘see’ inner beauty in a person, but we can definitely ‘feel’ it. A person with an inner beauty always touches people around them. Inner strength is reflected in this inner beauty which comes from unconditional faith in God, courage of conviction, positive attitude and a spirit that refuses to get flattened out by the ups and downs of life.

I have seen women wearing tonnes of makeup on their face and frankly speaking they look like puffed-up pancake monsters, seriously! The very sight of them makes me so irritated. Apply makeup, there is no problem in that, but make it minimum such that it highlights your natural features.

Get going, develop the beauty that lies within you, be daring, be risky, and be yourself!

To judging with righteous judgment…

“True beauty shines through, for the wise can see through the superficiality of perfect skin, or hidebound social judgements.”

What is your own perception of beauty? Inner or outer beauty counts?



Letting go of my weaknesses and hello to my strengths!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009 Edit This

I feel helpless and hopeless at the whim of external forces around me. I feel pushed and pulled in all directions by people who think they know the direction that's best for me.

And, at times, I feel as if I had been punched in the stomach, ARGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!.

I find myself saying yes when I wish I had the courage to say NO, and no when I really wish I had the confidence to say YES. I really really wish if I could be more assertive!

And, worst of all, I feel suffocated bcoz of my family. 3 years of verbal abuse, anger, tension, hatred, anxiety, depression, and no freedom... I have had it all enough!!!

I suffered all these just bcoz I loved a person!!! Can you believe that??!!?? Yes, just because I fell in love with my best buddy.

I want to get out through this difficult time and focus on the positive, and no matter what, I will be his wife! Did you hear that you bloody stinking relatives- I WILL BE HIS WIFE!!!

My job – the only freedom I had – financial crisis robbed me. The officials blame the crisis, but God only knows the nasty games played by people who lick the boss' ass. You won't get away, you fat scoundrel!!!

Not at all easy to let go of resentments or anger, I know.

Gone are those days when I felt energized, vibrant and focused… All these have left me dull! I really really need a boost to my sense of empowerment, self-esteem and self-confidence.

AND IT'S NEVER TOO late! Its never too late to come out of the cold.  My life is in my hands, in my state of mind and in my attitude! 

 

I will celebrate my uniqueness, for, quite simply – I'm extraordinary!

 

Goodbye to sweaty palms and shaky knees.  

 

No more cringing, creeping or slinking into my room.

 

No more shooting furtive, envious glances at others who have 'made it in life.'

 

It's time to straighten my back and stiffen my spine.

 

God, give me resilience and strength so that I can tackle any challenges that I have to face in my life.

 

Tuning into my own gut feelings and trusting that the universe will take care of me… 

 

"I have confidence in sunshine, I have confidence in rain.

I have confidence that spring will come again.

But above all, I have confidence, confidence in me."

A Motivational Quote

Sunday, May 24, 2009 Edit This

Our real blessings often appear to us in the shapes of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience, and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.

--

Joseph Addison

Bedding That Improves Your Skin

Tuesday, May 19, 2009 Edit This
How many of you love sleeping on your stomach (on your face)? Almost everyone, right? But, many of us try to avoid it due to the fact that wrinkles might appear.

No more worries... Sheets being infused with skin-smoothing ingredients are here!!! SkinGlow bedding from London Luxury LLC.


The SkinGlow line utilizes patented Cupron copper technology which provides a gentle, non-invasive and natural solution for dramatically restoring skin's youthful look and glowing appearance. Copper ions woven into the fabric are activated by moisture released from the body during sleep, beautifying skin's appearance, making it look smoother and younger while nourishing stressed and aging skin. The ions last for the lifetime of the product, even after repeated washings, without losing effectiveness, as long as fabric softeners aren’t used.
It is not only dermatologist-approved, but is clinically-proven to reduce the appearance of wrinkles. Yes, you can become wrinkle-free while you sleep and it makes your skin baby smooth in four weeks time.

In addition to its beauty benefits, the non-sensitizing and non-irritating copper-infused fabric has natural deodorant properties that reduce body odor-causing bacteria, fungus and microbes.


Bed Bath & Beyond is now exclusively carrying the SkinGlow collection, which ranges from $20 to $250.


Counting sheep is so going to be worth it!

I am Difficult

Monday, May 18, 2009 Edit This
Do not give up in life because there are lot of difficulties.

Difficulties in your life do not come to destroy you;
but to help you realize your hidden potential.

Let difficulties know that you are difficult!

YUPPP! ME DIFFFFFICULTT!!!

Poke! Poke! Poke!

Thursday, May 14, 2009 Edit This

Sorry guys, was kinda cranky yesterday....... just couldn't control my temper. With people bugging you 24/7 what more can you expect!

Arggghhh.... All they have to say is "Elegant Chic!!!!! You are 25!!! Soon you will be 26, you are old, you have to get married soon, why aren't you getting married, is there any problem, or do you have someone in mind, or are you waiting to repay your parents on whatever they have spent on you, blah blah blah..."

Cut the crap out, you bloody buggers!!! Go poke your nose on a skunk's arse or a porcupine!!! And leave me alone!!!

relax... relax... relax...

What a crappy weather!!!

Note to FourMe:
You said it right pal, it feels so good to spill the guts out of your chest right here, right now!

Beware: Anger Post!

Wednesday, May 13, 2009 Edit This
I'm so mad!
I hate myself!
I hate everyone!
I hate this world!

White Angel v/s Red Angel

Sunday, May 10, 2009 Edit This

A lie has speed, but truth has endurance.

Lucky Draw for $250 on Dia Diwan

Wednesday, May 06, 2009 Edit This

Dia Diwan is here again with yet another amazing sweepstake! You get to win $250 to spend in the Global Souk on their new Spring collections.

So, what are you waiting for! Hurry and register yourself here. Competition ends on 20 May, 2009.

Oracle or .NET???

Monday, May 04, 2009 Edit This

I wanna update my skills...
Should I go for Oracle or .NET????? Which has good scope?
Help!!!

Newly Acquired Novels

Friday, May 01, 2009 Edit This

Something about the cover page of "Will You Be There?" by Guillaume Musso attracted me so much that I ended up buying it. 5 chapters over and its fantastic!

Got it from The Kuwait Bookshop @ Muthanna.
Both are priced K.D. 3.500 each.

Haven't started the second book yet.

I got 40% discount and paid only a mere sum of K.D. 4.200 and saved K.D. 2.800. (Thanks to a friend of mine who works there!)

This keeps me wondering on how these shopkeepers price their items! I know I could get these real cheap through Amazon but no patience to wait till it arrives.